A Peek Inside the Book Writing Process

by Mandi on January 17, 2011

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source: Sarah

Although not all bloggers aspire to be published authors, I know many do. As I work on a book project with Tara from Deal Seeking Mom, I thought you might appreciate an inside look at the process, or at least the process from my perspective.

The Back Story

A couple of years ago, I set an arbitrary goal for myself. I wanted to have a book published by the time I was 30. It didn’t take me long to realize that the goal was unrealistic because I simply didn’t have time to pursue it.

However, late last summer, an editor from Berkley Publishing/Penguin Group USA reached out to Tara about a possible book project. They spent some time talking about the project, but in the end, Tara decided it wasn’t really something she wanted to take on right now, and she declined. The editor was persistent, though, and asked what she thought about working with a ghost writer. At that point, Tara brought up the idea of working with me instead. After a phone interview and some time looking through my writing, the editor and publishing house agreed to bring me on as part of the project.

What it boils down to is that they agreed to bring me on as a way to keep Tara, and she’s the one they really want. But you know what? A book is a book.

Lesson 1:

Be ready. You never know when an opportunity might present itself.

Lesson 2:

There’s no place for pride.

The Book

The book itself is a reference guide for the modern family. It blends both Tara and my areas of expertise in an easy to read book that we hope will be really, really useful to each and every person who buys it and not just another book collecting dust on the shelf.

The Process

We reached an agreement with the publisher in mid-November and began research for the book, fine-tuning our outline, bouncing ideas off one another, etc. With the holidays, we didn’t make a ton of progress in December, but I spent that time streamlining my own life: finishing up projects, scaling back my commitments and decluttering my home (again…).

In January, we jumped right into actually writing the book. Tara and I are doing the research together, I’m doing most of the writing, and then we’re tweaking the final draft together.

I’ve discovered a few things about myself over the past couple of weeks:

1. I’m highly distractible. Give me a reason to work on something other than the book, and 9 times out of 10, I’ll take it.

2. I need a buffer time between working and writing so that I can get myself into the right mindset to write. This usually means I work, eat/read and then focus on writing.

3. Maybe surroundings shouldn’t matter, but for me, they do. I need to be comfortable, warm and not at my regular desk (too many distractions).

4. Setting a word count goal is great motivation. The first day I sat down to write, I beat my goal, and it was great motivation to jump right back into it the next day.

5. Chewing gum helps me find my rhythm, figuratively and literally. Whenever I find myself losing focus, I pop in a piece of gum and it helps me get focused and back on track. It’s like cheap therapy!

Where We Go From Here

We still have quite a bit to write, but overall, we’re both feeling very optimistic about how the book is taking shape, and I’m excited about the next 7 weeks. The manuscript is due to the editor by March 7th, and I’ve set a personal goal of turning it in early, just because I’d like to not procrastinate on something for once in my life.

We’ve also scheduled a family vacation for late March because I think we’ll probably need one by then!

The rest of spring and summer will be spent finalizing the copy, layout, etc., and the book is scheduled to be published in January 2012.

And you know what? My 30th birthday is a few months later.

Have you ever thought about writing a book? Is it just an idea or something you’re actually pursuing?


  • http://naturecanopy.typepad.com/lilolu Jackie@Lilolu

    I didn’t realize they could be kept that long if washed regularly. Now I won’t feel so bad when I pay as much as I do for my sponges.

  • http://www.knitivity.com/ Ray

    Noooo… no sponges for cleaning. ICK! And no paper towels, EVER!

    I bought 4 dozen bar towels at Sam’s Club a few years ago, and they are mostly still with me. I bought them for work (I dye yarn and need lots of dye mops!), but discovered they are excellent around the kitchen. They rinse quite well between uses during the day, and wring out nearly dry to hang and air dry for use later. I use 2-3 every day, and then toss them into the wash with whatever else is getting washed, if I’m not doing a full load of dye mops. They never linger over night.

    My whole collection is thoroughly stained with dyes, but are always clean and sanitary, neatly folded and stacked close at hand. They don’t kill trees like disposable paper products and don’t collect germies like synthetic sponges.

    Restaurants and bars don’t use sponges — they use bar towels, for a reason.

    Ray Whiting

  • Deb

    I use these washcloths that you can buy at regular stores, they have a scratchy netting side and a plain washcloth side, I go through probably 10 a day. I have a clean thing about the kitchen. My sink is always clean enough that if something drops in it, we can still eat it, i.e. I always clean with cleanser after any raw meat in any way shape or form touches it and I clean it regardless of that at least once a day. I also wipe down all my counters with vinegar multiple times a day as needed. My mil teases me about all the rags I use, but I just throw them in the washer, so it is no big deal. I also NEVER use paper towels, really only for laying bacon on after I cook it. I just don’t like sponges, guess it is just what you are used to.

  • mary b

    I am not a fan of sponges either. I use dishcloths and towels in the kitchen. Near the end of the day I pop my dishcloth in the microwave, too. I let it air dry and in the a.m. it (and the dishtowel) gets tossed in with whatever laundry I am doing.

  • http://www.knitivity.com/ Ray

    I would add that merely wetting and nuking a sponge might kill most of the germs, you still end up wiping dishes and counters with a sponge full of dead germs. :-)

  • http://eternalvoyageur.xanga.com Eternal*Voyageur @ Venusian*Gl

    I use copper scouring pads, not sure what they´re called, but I feel they are somehow cleaner than sponges. There is not much place for bacteria to grow, and I guess that they don´t like copper much. Oh, and they´re very cheap too.
    I don´t mean steel wool but made out of copper, rather something that looks like a scouring pad, made of a loose mesh of copper.
    .-= Eternal*Voyageur @ Venusian*Glow´s last blog ..How To Get Rid Of Pimples =-.

  • shopping2scale

    Good evening, My mother and I had always wanted to put together a cookbook, then I met this gentleman, that was an author and I began to help him with his latest project, he became ill and passed away, But I learned a tremendous amount from him, that I didn’t actually think I had learned anything. I became fasinated with what/how he began to create a book. He often would tell me that I had what it took to create a book. I think it would be a great tribute to him for me to create one. I truly miss him. And regret that he didn’t get his manuscript published before he passed as it was on Ronald Reagan and this yr would have been the perfect time for it to have became a reality. Thank you so much for the post above and i will continue to follow your progress. I look forward to my next mission.
    http://www.shopping2scale.blogspot.com

  • http://twitter.com/NotJustCute Amanda Morgan

    Congrats, Mandi! That’s so exciting! And thanks for a look into your writing process. That was really interesting.

  • http://happyhealthymama.com Maryea {Happy Healthy Mama}

    Congratulations on reaching your goal! And thanks for a little peek into the process.

  • http://www.familybalancesheet.org Kristia

    Congrats on your book opportunity. That is fabulous news. I look forward to hearing all about your adventure.

  • Renaysue

    Many prayers for lots of success! you rock!

    • Anonymous

      Thanks, Renay!

  • http://orgjunkie.com Orgjunkie

    Oh I can so relate! Do you know I couldn’t write unless I was eating popcorn. It was the strangest thing and I’d never heard of anyone else needing to do something similar. So glad to know I’m not alone, yay! I’m really not sure I’d do go through it all again but it does feel great to have it done. You’ll be there before you know it, congrats!!

    • Anonymous

      This made me laugh out loud — it *is* good to know that we’re not alone in our quirks! I think about your experiences with your book a lot these days!

  • Joyce

    Congrats! Very exciting!

  • http://fimby.tougas.net Renee @ FIMBY

    have I thought about it – yes! Right now in fact (in the research and planning stages). But doing it in 6 months – no. Wow, you have some tight deadline there. Have fun! Hope you find some good gum flavors (wink).

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  • Selenamoffitt

    A book! Yes…life story stuff…maybe someday. Good luck to you! I can’t wait to buy it :)
    Selena Moffitt

    • Anonymous

      I love to read those types of books, but I know it’s a huge undertaking! No
      doubt you can pull it off, though — I love your voice!

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